From blaming to gratitude Why on earth do we have to struggle so much? It puzzles me why it is so difficult for couples to achieve great functioning relationships. With my husband I have supported couples for 18 years, but I am too humble to have any answers to this mystery. All I can do is to share some of my own struggles and life changing insights. Many couples we have worked with, tell us that they recognize themselves in our story. If we can inspire some people, it […]
Relationships of any kind is a test of our ability to grow, take responsibility, forgive, accept, ….
I estimate that 98% of relationships are codependent. Most of us have unresolved traumas from childhood and some aspects of our psyche have been frozen in a distant past. We have inner children that are still hurt and are in severe need of re-parenting. It is healthy and natural for children to need their primary […]
There is a treasure to be found deep inside every relationship. A gift so big it feels like magic. It will bring joy, love and healing to everyone involved. If you want to find this treasure you need to treat your relationship like a fragile plant. It needs to be taken care of. If […]