I was going to be the best mom ever! Since I was a young girl I have been daydreaming about having a husband and children. We were going to build our house together and smoking was not going to be allowed in our home. We were going to get a dog and live on the countryside. I was going to […]
“Are you an angel?” In the middle of the kundalini storm that raged around me, a tiny, telepathic voice whispered in my ear. I was lying in bed in the wee small hours, with a howling wind beating at my window. I had no idea what was happening to me, but I did what I felt […]
From blaming to gratitude Why on earth do we have to struggle so much? It puzzles me why it is so difficult for couples to achieve great functioning relationships. With my husband I have supported couples for 18 years, but I am too humble to have any answers to this mystery. All I can do is to share some of my own struggles and life changing insights. Many couples we have worked with, tell us that they recognize themselves in our story. If we can inspire some people, it […]
Relationships of any kind is a test of our ability to grow, take responsibility, forgive, accept, ….
I estimate that 98% of relationships are codependent. Most of us have unresolved traumas from childhood and some aspects of our psyche have been frozen in a distant past. We have inner children that are still hurt and are in severe need of re-parenting. It is healthy and natural for children to need their primary […]
There is a treasure to be found deep inside every relationship. A gift so big it feels like magic. It will bring joy, love and healing to everyone involved. If you want to find this treasure you need to treat your relationship like a fragile plant. It needs to be taken care of. If […]